ABC

Hello there, I’m back.
So my title sounds like I’m going to be talking about the English alphabet but actually nahhhh, this is just a coded term for something interesting..... wait for it..... THE 3 GUYS I’VE FALLEN FOR (notice how I didn’t say anything about love 😁), so yes fallen for!
This is the story of my love life 😂😂 so enjoy!!!

A!!!
I met A in my university in 100 level and we became good friends. Growing up, from primary and secondary school, I’d been pretty close to boys, I wasn’t a typical tomboy but I had lots of male friends. So generally I’m comfortable around guys especially if the friendship was genuine. In other words, I was used to being friend zoned. It was pretty normal for me. So that’s a little background gist.
So I and A were really close. We were not course mates but we were in the same service unit. We teased each other a lot, we joked a whole lot. This went on for a while tho. But suddenly he started being sweet, calling me baby and all. I didn’t see anything to it especially cos he was a generally friendly person and he also had lots of female friends. We continued our platonic friendship until we went on holidays. (Note, we were already done with our second year.)
I had to stay back in school cos engineering students had swep to do. That holiday, he travelled out of the country for vacation but it was at this point things changed.
The swep exercise was really annoying cos I mean, while every other person was chilling and resting, we had to stay back in school.
But one day like that I got a call from none other than A. I was pretty shocked when he told me that he was in the abroad but he just wanted to call me. Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, uncles and aunties, it was at this point that I fell badly AKA wòn get mi AKA I started catching feelings 😭😭😭🤣🤣. I mean, he called just to see how I was doing. I started thinking and feeling things 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️.  I thought he felt the same or maybe that was just what I wanted!
Funny thing about this was that I was a couple of months older than him and when I was much younger, I made up my mind never to date any guy younger than me (I actually wanted to marry a man like 10 years older than me lmao 😂) but at that point I was ready to risk it all. I remember telling my sister at that point that I will soon have a boyfriend despite the fact that I had promised myself not to date in university but mehn I was ready to forget that promise.
In my head, we would resume 300 level and he’ll ask me to be his girlfriend. I was very ready sef 🤣🤣).
Well we resumed quite alright but that never happened. Instead, some weeks later I learnt he now had a girlfriend who was also my friend. Brethren, I was crushed to say the least, I felt betrayed 😭😭😭😭, I didn’t want to see him but our lives had become so intertwined,  so at every turn, he was there. I had to cope with it and I didn’t give myself away, we continued being friends, but I was hurting, for a short while tho 🤣🤣🤣🤣. This babe nah hard babe fa 😎😎😎.

Interesting fact is that I never talked to him about it so right now I don’t know if he liked me at a point or if he just wanted to lead me on or if he was just being friendly.. and it’s fine by me, I cannot really be bothered.
Right now, we talk once in a blue moon, he’s doing really well and I’m glad.

PS: he broke up with the babe and I heard it was a pretty bad breakup 😢😢😞😞

B!!!
Nothing much to say about B. He is a friend of a friend of a friend 🤣🤣😭😭. Really really loved his personality; calm, smart, deep sometimes, very creative, talks sense, great singer, plus he’s soooo fine 😍😍, my exact spec 😂😂. Let’s just say our friendship has not gone farther than small talks, how are you blah blah but I really like being around him. I actually don’t know what I feel for him but he’s a really cool somebody 😎😎.

C!!!
Hmmmm... I’ve talked about C before (last 2 posts) but I’ll be elaborating here.
This is the most recent and probably the most painful 😪.
So I met C in church, fresh boy, always looking good, nice smile etc, but I unlooked him, never said a word to him, I didn’t have a reason to anyways. Life just continued, until some months later when C and I had to attend a church training together. Even at that point I chose not to get close to him, exchanged one or two words occasionally until C got my number and started texting me, he became so friendly towards me but I was being so careful and trying so hard not to fall for him. This continued for a while and before I knew it, this hard girl’s  hard heart was getting soft 😭😭. I really tried to stop it but he had gotten me wrapped around his fingers. We hardly talked over the phone but we always messaged each other and we saw each other almost every week. I remember a particular week that I was down and sooo cranky all because he didn’t reply me 😭😭😭😫😫😫. He eventually did, after apologizing. Even after that, we kept on with the back and forth but I was already into him.
But just as this whole situationship started, it ended almost immediately, and I don’t know what went wrong. We just stopped chatting, just like that. It kindda seemed like history (A) was repeating it self. We grew apart and stopped talking. I think he has a girlfriend now (I feel like next year I’ll just hear he’s getting married, I’m actually preparing my self for the news 😂😂). It kinda hurts maybe cos I was a little bit hopeful even tho in the beginning I was simply pessimistic about the whole thing.
Thinking about it right now, I’m still a bit hopeful about the whole thing.

For anybody thinking “why can’t she talk to him about it?” Well, I just can’t. My boldness never reach that level. I’d rather pray about it.

So here are the 3 guys I’ve actually felt something serious for in my entire lifetime.
God Ebunoluwa 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️, you need to do better.
I’m still very open to falling in love and most especially being loved back, I’m looking forward to it actually.
So I’m ending the year still really hopeful and prayerful about my love life. But the yearbis not even over sef. Anything can actually still happen. 🤞🏾  🤞🏾