WELCOME TO MY HEAD!

2018 in review 2018 was pretty emotionally draining for me. Also it's has been an interesting year. I started a brand new job this year, lived on my own for the greatest part of the year, met so many of my set goals.  So this is me talking about my year in details. Here I go. GOALS 1. Professional goals So I started a new job in January this year after quitting my job last year!! (I just said that for effect, lol). Actually, I was retained in the office I did my NYSC but I rejected it, even tho at that time, I had no job offer from anywhere. I just couldn't stay in my ppa. Almost everyone I knew advised me to stay there because of the situation of things in the country but I really felt the conviction to leave and so I did just that. But due to the fact that I serve a living God who does all things in the best way, I went for an interview December 2017 and I eventually got the job. The pay is quite okay. Interestingly my present job is purely engineering and ...

Hello there, I’m back. So my title sounds like I’m going to be talking about the English alphabet but actually nahhhh, this is just a coded term for something interesting..... wait for it..... THE 3 GUYS I’VE FALLEN FOR (notice how I didn’t say anything about love 😁), so yes fallen for! This is the story of my love life 😂😂 so enjoy!!! A!!! I met A in my university in 100 level and we became good friends. Growing up, from primary and secondary school, I’d been pretty close to boys, I wasn’t a typical tomboy but I had lots of male friends. So generally I’m comfortable around guys especially if the friendship was genuine. In other words, I was used to being friend zoned. It was pretty normal for me. So that’s a little background gist. So I and A were really close. We were not course mates but we were in the same service unit. We teased each other a lot, we joked a whole lot. This went on for a while tho. But suddenly he started being sweet, calling me baby and all. I didn’t see a...

So lemme noh lie, I'm a little bit weird... Well maybe not a little bit, but I'm different. Here's a list of things that could point me out as being weird. So in no particular order: 1. I hate coke!!!! Yes I can't stand it, it's better recently (at least I can drink halfway) but formerly, I couldn't even take a sip. 2. It will also interest you to know I have NEVER EVER EVER bought coke with my money in my entire life. My money cannot waste. 3. I hate garri.. Yes I said it.. I don't get the love for garri, I've tried honestly, I have but I can't like it. I belong to a whatsapp group where so many of the members love garri and each time they talk about their love for garri, I go and try it out, but i never finish drinking it, I always end up throwing it away. This has happened like 3 times. 4. I can't live in Lagos. I'm allergic to that place mehn. I schooled in ota but I hardly ever went to Lagos. When I was applying for jobs, I...

I FELL IN LOVE THIS YEAR!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm sure you're wondering what is the lesson here, chill, I'll get there soon. But wait first, isn't the term falling in love too extreme for a hard hearted person like me. Okay lemme rephrase the statement. I LIKED SOMEONE SOOOO MUCH, Soo much that I started looking forward to his messages and to seeing him 🙈🙈. Now back to the lesson. So in my 24 years on this planet earth, I've only felt this way like 2 or 3 times (I'll write about those times real soon) and it had been a while. So basically I had reached a point in my life that I considered myself EMOTIONLESS. Like I wasn't even remotely attracted to anyone and I was actually worried (NOT!! 😂😂😂). But actually I couldn't be bothered and that even made it worse cos I didn't even want to change anything about myself. Well let's keep going. I met this human being earlier this year (won't mention the 'where' so...

So I was just reminiscing about the last year about a month ago and one thing I’d learnt so far was not to judge people. Alas I was to even learn more things concerning that same topic and I’ll just like to share.  So since this year began, I’ve being watching this show called your view and it’s quite an interesting showing.  On Wednesday 5th December, the main host of the show made a statement on how she would not allow her husband bath her daughter. Honestly I thought she should not have made the statement cos it's a really personal statement and I knew it would cause a whole lot of backlash but I didn’t think it will be overly seriously. Why? I had watched the show for close to a year and I had heard her a couple of times talk about her husband and it had only been loving words and words of praise, but by the end of the day, the post had gone viral and she received more backlash than I ever thought. I was really pained about it. To me it was not fair. But it got me...